“Criticism solely fuels your sufferer complicated, reinforcing the comforting delusion that there is some grand conspiracy towards you and your ‘courageous concepts’—when in actuality, you’ve got simply acquired horrible takes. It is a cycle: outrage, backlash, self-pity, repeat.”
“This can be a lonely street,” Alexis continued. “There’s nonetheless time to rewrite the ending — begin by engaged on your self first. You may discover that when you get up each morning making an attempt to be slightly higher, slightly extra curious, you will not have time for irrational hating — you may be too busy profitable.”